to this.
    
and this was over the course of 10 hours or so.  :) 
 
he has been named elliot.  i figured it was about time to show some respec' to the fine people at law & order.  after all, they have given me a good six years of obsessive television entertainment.  so new mr. kitten has been named after the fine detective elliot stabler of law & order: special victims unit.  funny, considering i have often thought of naming my kitten olivia (his partner, olivia benson), but i'm not sure if i'm ready to have cats with, you know, "cleverly" connected names.  olivia is a good name, though, isn't it?  
 
anyway, back to elliot - he actually seems to like being held sometimes.  i got purrs already!  sometimes you can tell he's just waiting for you to let up a little so he can dart, but other times i don't even have to hold him.  he just sits there and blinks while i rub his cute little head and big satellite ears.  his little teeth stick out of his mouth!  he's a total batcat.
 
so yeah, last night i was at the sink and i saw a black moving figure out of the corner of my eye.  it was elliot!  coming out to sniff the big plant!  the kitten hissed him back under the bed, so i figured that was the last of the activity for the night but was so, so proud.
 
a bit later, i was playing with a new toy and the kitten.  left it on the ground when we were done.  from the next room, i heard bells.  went to look - elliot was out and playing!  so he had a grand old time last night, whomping mousies and biting string.  he's not scared of the kitten, either.  it takes a good five hisses before he runs away.  go, elliot!  :)
 
he still doesn't like it when i catch him and he still spends 99% of his time in hiding, but these were BIG, HUGE STEPS.
 
anyway, i think the key to all this was loving and petting and reassurance.  also, i gave him tuna two nights in a row.  :)